Steve Harvey: Why didn’t you stop hitting her? || STEVE HARVEY

IF ONLY SHE WOULD HAVE SHOWED MORE AFFECTION ???

Did he just blame her? Did I hear him wrong?

  The only answer I have in terms of him coming from a good home is that a good home is subjective.  How was the parents relationship?  Was he able to have a “voice” growing up?   For him to act out like that and seemingly out of nowhere he must be holding a lot of anger in.  Something is festering on the inside.  I remember in my youth being angry about so many things and bottling things up and finding ways to act out, subconsciously.  I’m glad he owned up publically, that took a lot of kahunas, but Jesus himself would have to tell me to stay.  I’m just saying.

+Christina Thomas You heard him Right, but he had something missing in his life and he was expecting her to meet that need. So he took it out on her. Still not her fault though. My question is how the hell did he come out an abuser and come from a good home?
Published on Jan 22, 2016

Steve Harvey welcome Kyle Norman of the band Jagged Edge for a serious discussion about his arrest for assaulting his then-fiancé.

 

Why did Kyle Norman’s wife stay after the abuse? 

SO BECAUSE HE GETS THE NEWS THAT HIS FATHER HAS CANCER HE TAKES IT OUT ON YOU?  HE CHOKES YOU, BEATS YOU AND TRY TO MAKE YOU SWALLOW YOUR WEDDING RING!!!!!   YOU LOST YOUR FOSTER CHILD AND YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS FOR YOUR ABUSER. THIS IS HEART BREAKING. THEY BOTH NEED INDIVIDUAL COUNSELING. THIS IS NOT LOVE. 

Domestic abuse is a serious issue 

licensed psychotherapist Stacey Kaiser to weigh in

Cosmic Consciousness 
Staying with someone because of the potential you see in them vs. accepting them as they are right now is a recipe for disaster. Strong insecurities on both sides (like attracts like). Hopefully she will take a long and deep journey inwards to discover her self-worth and reclaim her personal power so she won’t tolerate mistreatment or even attract these types of losers. Until she works on Self, she will end up with the same type even if she does get out of this one. I’ve been there, done that and got the tshirt 👕.
Mekhi Hoops 
it’s her choice . not everybody the same . so your opinion isn’t her decision.

holistic79
Abusers always pick their victims they go for one with very low self esteem as their easy to control and it means there’s more chance they will stay.

Tonya Calvin 
His demeanor does not set well with me. The counselor was RIGHT ON with her response. The red flags says a lot. He has not fully accepted that YES it was you beating her like she was a piece of day old meat and YES YOU Sir caused her pain and humiliation. Also she IS NOT helping him by minimizing what he did to her. The FIRST step to healing and getting better in ANY situation is to OWN up to the hell you caused her and seek counseling.
Candra Cherry   I want to have faith in them but their body language-it seems as if most of their answers “from the air.” he cant answer without looking in the air and neither can she. to me (and I may be wrong) it says they are uncertain about what they want to say and they have doubts as well…praying for them 💕
Ladiva Ray 
I don’t give a dammmmm, he hits me I’m outttttt…..

We as women are always willing to our feelings on the back back back burner to support someone else. We always take care others first. You can forgive from a distance

he look like he wants to beat her ass right there and now.

As a victim support worker for DV and also as someone works closely with social workers and children at risk. This women should not be with this man and she should certainly not be allowed to foster any children. Recovery an forgiveness is a separate issue. The safety and welfare of societies most vulnerable children is paramount. She has put her relationship before her own welfare and that of the children she is caring for, that’s not acceptable

Steve wasn’t buying it…neither was the audience

Any man that hits a woman doesn’t love her! love doesn’t hurt! No woman deserves that! Once he hits you he will apologize for it but guess what?…he will continue to hit you again and again! I say LEAVE HIM ALONE before you end you in a body bag. Love yourself enough to leave!

Other people who are in the same position watch this show and would like to learn from this. Realistically and statistically, he will go back to his normal habits unless he actually seeks professional help. Nothing is wrong with trying to open up another persons eye to a perspective that they would not have seen unless shown
 
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